Anytime you are pondering on a gift, do you think about the most expensive gift that you can afford or a special thing that transmits a message? Does the cost of the gift actually make a difference? Let's examine what goes on when you give a gift.
It's worth noting that gifts are supposed to symbolize care and concern. They have to be special, not necessarily costly. It's not to say that an expensive gift is inappropriate, but what is considerably more significant is the display of affection and care. It is the message that you impart and not the cost of the gift that matters more.
When you gift a really expensive thing, it seems to imply that you put more value on the item than the act of giving. If it doesn't suit the taste of the individual receiving it, then it won't matter much and both of you are likely to be dismayed. Whatever the case, it's not the price but the usefulness that's a bigger factor. A greeting, a kiss, a dozen flowers or even a good word might give more pleasure to the person in comparison to an extravagant gift.
We must remember that there are occasions when an expensive gift is appropriate. There are certain special occasions when the gift of something that is really needed, though perhaps expensive, can make a big change in the life of the person receiving it. And such a gift can sometimes show care and concern. If you look closely, you will notice that even in these cases, the expensiveness of the item is incidental. What really matters is that you have recognized a need and are trying to fulfill it.
With an expensive gift, you may not be able to convey the message very well. On the contrary, an inexpensive gift will force you to be creative. In the process, you put more thought into it. Ponder on that for a while. You will appreciate that an inexpensive gift can convey the message as good, or even better than an expensive one. It's the act giving with all your heart and not what you give that's important.
It's worth noting that gifts are supposed to symbolize care and concern. They have to be special, not necessarily costly. It's not to say that an expensive gift is inappropriate, but what is considerably more significant is the display of affection and care. It is the message that you impart and not the cost of the gift that matters more.
When you gift a really expensive thing, it seems to imply that you put more value on the item than the act of giving. If it doesn't suit the taste of the individual receiving it, then it won't matter much and both of you are likely to be dismayed. Whatever the case, it's not the price but the usefulness that's a bigger factor. A greeting, a kiss, a dozen flowers or even a good word might give more pleasure to the person in comparison to an extravagant gift.
We must remember that there are occasions when an expensive gift is appropriate. There are certain special occasions when the gift of something that is really needed, though perhaps expensive, can make a big change in the life of the person receiving it. And such a gift can sometimes show care and concern. If you look closely, you will notice that even in these cases, the expensiveness of the item is incidental. What really matters is that you have recognized a need and are trying to fulfill it.
With an expensive gift, you may not be able to convey the message very well. On the contrary, an inexpensive gift will force you to be creative. In the process, you put more thought into it. Ponder on that for a while. You will appreciate that an inexpensive gift can convey the message as good, or even better than an expensive one. It's the act giving with all your heart and not what you give that's important.
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